9 Books (and why you ought to pick them up asap)

I've been a bookworm for as long as I can remember (yes, I literally started the addiction from picture books). Must be the smell of the pages... but more than that, I think that books are, as my friend once told me in my college days, "intellectual investments." Every book has some considerable value which goes beyond its price tag. Never mind the popular reads... but for me, there are only three types of books:

Class A- You must read this before you die! (Revolutionary.)
Class B- You should read this. (Highly recommended.)
Class C- You may read this. (Or not.)

I believe that books are indispensable, and there are some particularly memorable ones which have heavily influenced my way of thinking, mostly in my walk with the Lord. This is why I have made a list of the books which I hope that all people should read as soon as possible. So far, there are 27 titles in my list, but here, I will only be talking about nine... lest you'd want to spend a very long dinner with me to discuss each.

So! Not in order... here are my Top 9 (Class A) book selections, all published by OMF-

1. The Jesus I Never Knew by Philip Yancey-
Yancey's inquisitive nature has captured the sentiment of the world, including mine, I believe. His writings come off so genuine because he asks the raw questions that not too many believers would want to delve in. I think I was able to know more of the Lord's omnipotence AND humility by reading this book, which is a product of Yancey's personal search for God. It offers a closer (and I mean really CLOSER) look on the persona of Jesus- his godly and human attributes. If you're serious about knowing Jesus and you have (or you want to have) a personal relationship with him, then this is a very important book to read. Very heavy, but profoundly satisfying.

2. Eros Redeemed by John White-
Agape is the popular type, but in the popular culture, Eros is the mainstay. In a time when sexual liberation is becoming an accepted norm, White opens the discussion of Eros through this brilliant exposition. In this book, he boldly discusses sexual love as God's wonderful creation, and also dispels common and wrong beliefs about it. In detail, he talks about the gravity of sexual sin, and why it is indeed one of the worst sins to deal with. In a sex-crazed society, this is a much-needed read for a better perspective. I don't care if it's an old book- the issues presented within are still very much apparent in the modern day. I believe that my view of sex has improved through reading this book.

3. The Bondage Breaker by Neil Anderson-
I've read this for about 14 times, and I still think it rightly belongs to the shelves of the classics. Anderson comes up with a detailed list (yes, there is a list) of worldly elements which can be sources of bondages for people, Christian or non-Christian. Many books discuss about sin, but few contain straightforward points like the ones in this book. From this I learned that sin does not stop at just the act of sinning- there is more to it than just the "wrong" action, both in the natural and supernatural realms. Reading this more than once has deepened my understanding of strongholds, and, more importantly, of my freedom in Christ. If you want to know more about that, then this is the book to read.

4. What's So Amazing About Grace? by Philip Yancey-
Another self-searching book of Yancey, this attempts to explain the grace of God in a more detailed fashion. Yancey uses accounts of different people to show the transcendent power of grace and why everyone- and I mean every one of us- needs it. Having had my share of doubts regarding grace, I would gladly give this book to someone who wants to be assured of the mystery of God's finished work of salvation through Jesus. Mind-blowing (come on, it's a Yancey pick), but very sincere. I can feel the heart of "a man after God's own heart" beating through the pages.

5. I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris-
For the young ones and the young once, this proves to be a challenging read. Harris, having written this from his dating and non-dating experience, offers practical Bible-based views and solutions to honor God through a life of holiness. I had first read this when I was in high school, and I think it has substatially helped in shaping my attitude on relationships (including waiting on the Lord for my husband). I personally think that this is so controversial in the sense that the typical dater would not even think of the idea of "not dating" to meet God's destined partner. Even then, I fiercely agree with this guy. This book is full of wisdom concerning different aspects of romantic relationships and allowing God to take hold of them.

6. Love Must Be Tough by James Dobson-
I am not married, but my personal interest in the intricate workings of a godly marriage has often led me to read books about the subject. I must say that this book is the best one I've come across so far. Reading this has given me real hope that marriages can be beautiful (my parents got separated). Dobson, having been happily married for more than 50 years, draws from personal experience as he gives practical solutions for various types of conflicts in marriage. It is interesting to note that this book actually came under fire, since during the time it was published, the commonly accepted idea is that marital conflicts should be dealt with passively and silently (meaning the offended Christian partner ought to suffer quietly and just pray). Dobson disagrees with this traditional method and presents proactive and effective ways to handle such difficult matters. This is perfect for couples NOT under fire- although it can be a useful read for those who actually ARE- but this is something I'd recommend more for couples in the early stage of their relationships. Why? Early prevention is better than cure.

7. Do Hard Things by Alex and Brett Harris-
Honestly I had initially picked this up because of their association with Joshua Harris (their older brother). I had expected a Class B, self-help novel for teenagers, but it was not long before I was very much moved by the Rebelution, a movement (started by the twin brothers themselves) which dares teenagers to do more than what the contemporary society expects them to do. This is what the book is mostly about- that people should start doing hard things in their time of youth, not when they become adults. The book discusses key people who have stepped up early in their lives and successfully built their own legacies for the benefit of the world. I wish I had read this ten years ago. I had actually given my copy away to my younger cousin, as I thought that she would be empowered by such an optimistic perspective of the youth. A powerful and motivational read. Not for traditionalists.

8. The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman-
Who wouldn't know Chapman? He has popularized the love languages concept for all of us. His study has immensely benefitted a lot of people in their dealings with love and relationships. In this book, he explains the various expressions of love and how to harness its powers for the enhancement of relationships. Suddenly, the cliche that everyone needs love has become clearer through this. I will always be thankful that I have read this book, since it has given me a very useful and real insight on what it means to give and receive love. Everyone who wants to understand love and how to improve relationships must read this book! Practical and handy in all interpersonal dealings.

9. Joyfully Single by Harold J. Sala-
The bookstore shelves have always been full of titles on marriage, and I think during the time when this book was published, books on the season of singlehood are a rarity. In this intriguing novel, Sala gives a refreshingly positive view of the nurturing life of a single and shouts once and for all that singlehood is not a curse- but a gift and a season to enjoy. This has given me a lot of encouragement, especially since I'm waiting on my husband in an unconventional way (that is, prayerfully waiting on the Lord, thanks to Harris' view). In the Philippine scene where being a single adult is an indication of being cursed with some serious characteristic defect, I think this is highly essential for us to keep trusting God as we continue to flourish- even as a single.

There you have it! And if I were to add two more titles, I'd say the Bible and Narnia. Bible is the Word. Narnia is a classic.

I hope to read more books! Nothing like a great read to chew on...

What about you? What's on your list?^^

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